It's easy to attribute our circumstance for uncontrollable factors that we have little say in them - like you must be hideous, thus the situation. Because if you are good looking, then you won't have such plight.
Then you stopped there - thinking that it must be true and believe in that notion. A complete stop. No movement. No nothing. Just acceptance and halt.
All heart, body, mind and soul will behave according to your mindset - therefore thinking that you are a failure in love, your mindset will reverberate an aura to the universe and it beget back the same response - you will then shape a destiny of a failure in love (or in any social settings) and it transform and become a reality for you.
If you think that to win in love is to have looks, you are probably flipping the wrong text.
Let me revert you a truth - most guys ain't good looking. In fact, in the looks aspect, most are just hovering around the average benchmark.
But there are many pretty ladies - I have always believed that for every 10 chicks around, there's probably only one good looking lad.
That's exactly how nature functions - in conventional school of thoughts: the feminine energy will exhibit a pull influence (passive), while the masculine energy will bring forth a push influence (active). An analogy I always use - flower and the bee.
A flower waits, but it doesn't sit and idle - it uses all subtle attractive powers (its scent, the colours, beauty, etc) to draw the bee towards it. A bee doesn't need to have the same quality, because the bee initiates, it doesn't attract.
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